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Conjecture

Read the texts again and consider, was he really having a go at you via multiple texts, or did it take multiple texts because he trying to explain his side and plead his case, thinking you were about to dump him?

Sissy

I'm a widowed looking for a serious loving man , some one thats ready to love me for me and make me happy , a man of his word.

Strasse

Sadly i realize this doesn't really allow you to move things forward with him too much or there's no guarantee of it. But it will be too one-sided and you will feel and be made to feel needy/clingy if you don't do some version of this. In a way you have to lower your expectations of what he can deliver (so you are not disappointed or pushing him) but raise your standards of what you will accept from him (so that he doesn't take you for granted). This is the time to be understanding of what he's got going on but firm in what you want. There is a way to see one another for sure but it won't result in the relationship you want if you are the only one making compromises. He has to go the extra step with what he can do, provided his schedule, to show you he is putting effort in. (such as asking you out 2 weeks in advance or being more spontaneous but accepting that might mean a "no" from you; he CAN do something if he wants to).

Calculator

The day of my high school graduation which he promised to go to, he went and got his penis pierced instead. And his ex-girlfriend, a very sweet girl who always talked to me and helped me, explained to me that he had said about me: "I'm giving her one last chance and I know she's gonna **** it up." and "She's being a whiney bitch. So I'ma dump her." Completely betrayed.

Diaglyph

musta hit home sock monkey for you to react so defensively. wasn't aomed at you but dont be naive and not think that a lot of people dump just to prop up their numbers.

Whig

Part of the problem is that I feel as if I shouldn't *have* to tell her that what she's doing is inappropriate. I also kind of feel that if she's doing it, she must have some need that making out with me isn't filling; and that therefore, asking her not to do it will either have no effect or will result in more problems further down the line. On a similar note, I think the fact that she *wants* to do it is more hurtful than than the fact that she does it. And I just hate to feel like I'm telling anyone in a personal relationship what to do. I feel like I can tell her how certain actions make me feel, but whether or not she should do them.

Rubeola

13699, plz tell me do u ever get any like this? I don't want to get my hopes up....u are my twin!

Eansor

agreed. A player would not beg to kiss you. As for the name calling, that sounds so annoying! 'Miss amazing', lol.

Intoxicating

another wow here haha.

Runfish

Hi.am a single woman seeking for lov.

Eddoes

I wasn’t giving you advice and I’m not a woman.

Flockman

Hi..Trying this site to see what is out there. Interested in finding a ltr with the right woman. But if it doesn't happen, that's ok to.

Beflower

I had hoped this past year would give us a chance to rebuild the friendship we had 6 years ago. The year started off great but somehow it hasn't ended up so well.

Parley

Why did you ask her to lunch?

Caryl

Were you a virgin when you got together? If not, then you have a double standard, but I commend you for trying so hard to work through it. Even if you can't get past this and break up with her, almost anyone else you date could trigger the same issue. It's simply not realistic to expect otherwise - and of course, anyone else you date could have exes that are bigger, or better, or handsomer. That does NOT matter. What matters is that they are choosing to be with you now, and vice versa.

Layton

Originally Posted by skydiveaddict.

Informant

i know u all r only trying to do ur job but seriously ive seen worse comments on pics then these.